I specialize in helping couples heal from marital infidelity. My approach is caring, non-judgmental, and highly engaged. I define forgiveness as “being released from debt” and I assist couples in understanding what debt has been incurred, expressing the pain and emotional cost of the infidelity and then moving couples in a dynamic reconnecting experience. This is very healing for the “victim” of the infidelity and, as important, it offers the “perpetrator” a way out of the shame with a positive path forward. I have recently been invited to present my approach to healing couple infidelity at the national conference of the American Mental Health Counselor’s Association.